'The Butt Has Been Liberated!"
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| Well almost. Anal play as a taboo (for anyone other than a gay
man) is beginning to encounter its death throes. People everywhere -
straight, gay, bi - are all experimenting with the backdoor, trying
to find out what is so great about it. Until fairly recently, the
back door has only been the butt of jokes regarding the sexual
orientation of straight men. Now it is still popular for jokes, but
there are also tons of other recommended uses for our sensitive back
passage. |
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The Straight Man and His Butt
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| Straight men are particularly prone to homophobic fears when it
comes to anal sex. They are generally afraid of anything to do with
bums except pooing. Any mention of licking, fingering or bum sex has
grown men flushing deep red, shaking their heads and declaring "I'm
not a poof!" loudly of course. Just to make sure everyone knows. It
is almost comical to watch, but the fears are real even if they
belong to an old school of thought. |
| Straight
Man Factsheet |
| Attitudes are changing - straight men are starting to realise
what a world of pleasure resides inside of them and the threat of
suddenly waking up gay is disappearing with the new knowledge and
experience gained. The understanding that using their bums for
sexual pleasure will not label them gay or a freak is reassuring.
Anal play is now being discussed at length by straight men that are
starting to find out for themselves the joys of prostate massage -
the male g-spot. Yes, it exists, and yes it's up the bum. Any man
who denies its presence is missing out. |
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Any Woman and Her Butt
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| Women are much easier to convince - 'if someone else can enjoy
it, then there should be no reason why I can't'. The proximity of
the rectum to the vagina makes anal sex for women a different
experience than for men. Both love it or loathe it in equal amounts,
but for different reasons. |
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| Women don't have the gay issue to contend with, which makes it
immeasurably easier for a woman to declare (or whisper) her desire
to take it in the date. The only other issues for women are the
distaste of all things bum and poo related, and the pain of
misdirected hard-ons. Most women have, at some point, had a "whoops,
wrong hole!" mistake which is extraordinarily painful, and enough to
put any smart woman off attempting to put anything in there. |
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| Those brave enough to try are rewarded with a new dimension to
their love-making and another option for spicing up stale sex lives.
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The Gay or Bi Man and His Butt
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| Gay men have been the trigger point for all this bum talk to
start with, since they are the 'kings of the butt-zone'. In the
early eighties there was an outbreak of HIV in the world, and the
problem was pinpointed to the gay male population. They were blamed
for spreading the virus through unprotected anal intercourse. |
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| This discovery sparked discussion of anal sex and gay people on
the 6 o'clock news, and it involved nearly the whole world. Everyone
started talking about it and some more people started doing it. It
was this trigger of social discussion that has led to the breakdown
of the taboo status that anal play has commanded in the past. It
hasn't been easy, but popping the cherries of taboo never is. |
| Gay/Bisexual Fact Sheet |
A New Old Way of Getting Off
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| When normal sex starts to go stale anal sex starts to get some
air, if only in thought. There is always the knowledge that many
other people enjoy it, and curiosity often gets the better of
people. The taboo status of the anus, as it slowly fades, also adds
to the excitement - forbidden fruit, so to speak. This is what has
attracted so many renegade riders to butts in the first place. |
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Modern Man at His Most Curious
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| Most modern people are at least talking about anal sex with
their friends - who's doing it, who's not, who likes licking or
being licked, who dares to finger and who has gone the whole way and
stuck something big in? Everyone is curious about what everyone else
is doing and this spurs action. It is something akin to keeping up
with the Jones's - nobody wants to get left behind or miss out. |
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| As straight men start to relax a bit, with a bit of coaxing and
cajoling from willing partners, the butt can and does bring much
pleasure and a deeper satisfaction from sexual activities. It can
spice up a boring sex life, adding new dimensions and different
sensations, all with the excitement of the unknown. |
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| As women's curiosity takes them further into their own and their
partners butts, their lack of homophobia allows them to take longer
and broader steps into the unknown and make it their own. |
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| Gay men are the best off out of everyone, with the assumption
that this is what they will be doing already in place before
anything actually happens. A great many gay men don't include this
in their sexual expeditions, but not for the same reasons as
straight men - obviously they can't be afraid of being labelled as
gay, so it simply rests with personal preference. |
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Say Goodbye to Anal Retentives
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| Welcome to our brave new world!
Being prudish about anal sex is rapidly becoming very un-cool.
This un-coolness is good because it normally keeps the mouths of the
prudes closed for fear of letting on just how afraid they really are
of anal invasions and all those who participate in such activities.
Eventually, anal sex will be totally normal and freely discussed
like all the other kinds of sex already are. It might take a while
longer, but we are halfway there - onwards and upwards we go! |
