- Know now:
Not everyone will have these amazing orgasms. They often
take time and work, and sometimes it just doesn't happen. The
reasons for this could be lack of proper rest and relaxation,
focusing too much on the penis, or not paying attention to body
signals - it is an individual thing. This is a risk you must be
willing to take. The thing is, if you manage to do it, you will
never look back.
- You may feel discomfort and embarrassment at first.
This is normal - it happens to all of us. When we are embarking on
our anal discoveries, things don't always run smoothly or cleanly.
Taking proper precautions ensures upsets are kept to a minimum.
Don't feel ashamed of your mistakes - they are all part of the
process.
- Using an anal toy does not make you gay.
It is so last century to think that a man putting something in his
bum for pleasure makes him gay. Most people know by now that a
man's G-Spot is in his anal passage and if they don't know it's
his G-Spot, they at least know his prostate is up there - thanks
Hollywood! Plus, chicks do it all the time and nobody accuses them
of being gay.
- Your girlfriend probably won't mind.
Think of it as similar to a woman's vibrator. Men often feel
threatened by the presence of a dildo shaped bigger-than-theirs
vibrator. The fact is, nothing compares to a real flesh and blood
man. Or a real woman. Apparently an orgasm with a partner releases
up to 400% more endorphins than going solo. The endorphins
effectively cling onto and cancel out sex hormones like
testosterone - that is why we are not satisfied to just wank our
way around the universe. A prostate massager is the equivalent to
a vibrator; you don't need a woman to give you mind blowing
orgasms, but its better when there is one there. Plus, anything
that enhances your sexual pleasure enhances her sexual pleasure.
Don't be scared to ask. If you need help explaining, send her
here!
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